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		<title>Great Quote</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2010/07/23/great-quote/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 11:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Although some are jealous because they are disposed to be jealous, the quote does point out that a lot of jealousy is generated by lack of trust in someone who is fundamentally untrustworthy. Jealous: Unduly concerned about the preservation of that which can be lost only if not worth keeping. Ambrose Bierce &#160; &#160;]]></description>
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		<title>Appreciating the View of Others</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/06/30/appreciating-the-view-of-others/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 18:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been almost two months since I last posted. Not sure how many rules having a large gap in posts breaks, even for a blog with less than a hundred followers, but my apologies to those of you who follow. People continue to give me good feedback on the book. They may only be trying [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Agendas</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 18:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s tough for me to think that a loved one has an &#8220;agenda&#8221; with me. Perhaps you have a similar distaste for thinking that someone who is a partner or potential partner has his/her own agenda vis-a-vis you.  Any difficulty thinking about agendas probably has to do with the implication that there might be a plan [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Assertiveness</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/04/06/assertiveness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 20:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In previous posts assertiveness has been embedded in the conversation. For example, when writing about the holidays, I spoke of managing your own and your partners expectations. This is a call to be assertive. In the book, Self Help In Sight, I write about the importance of being &#8220;true to your self&#8221;. This is also [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Motivation</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/03/18/relationship-motivation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 14:06:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For a number of reasons I&#8217;ve been thinking about motivation quite a lot recently. As noted before, scientists have studied three particular motivators in greater detail than any others. These are the motivation for power, achievement, and affiliation. Individuals motivated by power want to direct and influence others. Individuals motivated by achievement want to accomplish [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Happiness</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/03/09/relationship-happiness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 14:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In case you missed it, this is a great article on happiness in relationships written by Jeff Herring, MS, LMFT. It is focused on marriage but it could be about any commited relationship.  The original article is printed below in its entirety with my comments in red. &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211; Jeff Herring McClatchy-Tribune News Service March 08, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Not Good Enough</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/02/25/not-good-enough/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 21:24:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships 101]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self Help Cases]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[not good enough for a new relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[starting a relationship on the right foot]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A middle age man started a new relationship with a woman he met on a blind date.  The date was arranged by a friend of both. After a month or so of increasing closeness, he began to wonder about being &#8220;good enough&#8221; to date this woman.  His fear was that if she discovered all his [...]]]></description>
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