Self Help In Sight

It’s tough for me to think that a loved one has an “agenda” with me. Perhaps you have a similar distaste for thinking that someone who is a partner or potential partner has his/her own agenda vis-a-vis you.  Any difficulty thinking about agendas probably has to do with the implication that there might be a plan [...]

In previous posts assertiveness has been embedded in the conversation. For example, when writing about the holidays, I spoke of managing your own and your partners expectations. This is a call to be assertive. In the book, Self Help In Sight, I write about the importance of being “true to your self”. This is also [...]