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		<title>Agendas</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/05/04/agendas/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 18:48:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s tough for me to think that a loved one has an &#8220;agenda&#8221; with me. Perhaps you have a similar distaste for thinking that someone who is a partner or potential partner has his/her own agenda vis-a-vis you.  Any difficulty thinking about agendas probably has to do with the implication that there might be a plan [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Assertiveness</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/04/06/assertiveness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 20:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In previous posts assertiveness has been embedded in the conversation. For example, when writing about the holidays, I spoke of managing your own and your partners expectations. This is a call to be assertive. In the book, Self Help In Sight, I write about the importance of being &#8220;true to your self&#8221;. This is also [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Happiness</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 14:09:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In case you missed it, this is a great article on happiness in relationships written by Jeff Herring, MS, LMFT. It is focused on marriage but it could be about any commited relationship.  The original article is printed below in its entirety with my comments in red. &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211; Jeff Herring McClatchy-Tribune News Service March 08, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Narcissism in Relationships</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/01/30/narcissism-in-relationships/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 16:59:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Myth of Narcissus Narcissus is said to have been so consumed by his own beauty that he was blind to the beauty of others.  In punishment, he was enchanted by the gods to stare at his reflection in a pool.  Unable to embrace or otherwise &#8220;connect&#8221; with his reflection, he became despondent and killed [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Free On-line Motivation Assessment</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/01/26/free-on-line-motivation-assessment/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 18:57:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For a limited time, a motivation assessment will be available free to those interested in learning more about their motivation and how it impact their relationships.  The details are: To complete the motivation assessment, you must write four stories.  Two of the stories must be about significant events in past or current relationships and two [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Compatibility of Motivation in Relationships &#8211; Continued</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/01/13/compatibility-of-motivation-in-relationships-continued/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 16:33:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the previous post, I introduced the notion of paying attention to a potential or new partner&#8217;s need for achievement, power, and affiliation.  There is ample evidence that these needs have an effect on how people relate to each other, including in romantic relationships. The questions are:  how can you tell what another person&#8217;s motivation [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Compatibility of Motivation in Relationships</title>
		<link>http://selfhelpinsight.com/2009/01/05/motivation-compatibility-in-relationships/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 19:13:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Brad Lebo</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you every thought about how a partner or potential partner&#8217;s motivation might be incompatible with your own?  It may be something you want to consider when thinking about a partner or potential partner. Scientists have studied motivation for many, many years.  Freud thought in terms of human &#8220;drives&#8221;.  Maslow, Murray, and others researched human [...]]]></description>
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