Self Help In Sight

A middle age man started a new relationship with a woman he met on a blind date.  The date was arranged by a friend of both. After a month or so of increasing closeness, he began to wonder about being “good enough” to date this woman.  His fear was that if she discovered all his [...]

This post is based on an all too familiar situation: two individuals starting a new relationship while they are still married. I have been in contact with the woman only in this case. My understanding of her motivation is less speculative than it is of his, but after many years of hearing why people start [...]