Self Help In Sight

This post is based on an all too familiar situation: two individuals starting a new relationship while they are still married.
I have been in contact with the woman only in this case. My understanding of her motivation is less speculative than it is of his, but after many years of hearing why people start [...]

A young man, Tim, sought help because the woman he loved betrayed his trust (let’s call her Phoebe).  She left town to spend some time with her ailing mother.  While away she met someone new and started a relationship.  She maintained the illusion that she was loyal to Tim during daily phone calls and over [...]