Self Help In Sight

This post is based on an all too familiar situation: two individuals starting a new relationship while they are still married. I have been in contact with the woman only in this case. My understanding of her motivation is less speculative than it is of his, but after many years of hearing why people start [...]

The relationship readiness survey is now up and running. Not surprisingly, it rates relationship readiness based on the principals expressed in the blog.  It is a tool for assessing your relationship readiness. The readiness index score is on a scale of 1 to 100.  Scores above 35 are average.  Scores above 65 are very good. [...]